Secrets

8 Moves To Spice Up Your Oral Sex

September 5, 2014

  1. Leg Up Let your partner kneel on the floor as you lie down at the edge of your bed while holding a leg up by the thigh. This lifts up your hip a little and allows you to add some movement to his stroking. In this position, turn your pelvis around like you’re dancing to a Konshens song (to the uncool and elderly, that’s ndombolo, lingala style dancing.) This way you can rub your clit on his face whether or not his tongue is in the right place, and you’ll get yourself off. 2. Legs Wide Shut This is for those that find direct contact with the clit to be a bit too much sensation. Lie down with your legs closed. Have him kneel or lie in front of you then apply light pressure on your lady lips while he rubs his tongue on the area around your sensitive kambosho. You’ll find that this indirect stimulation often does the trick. You have to actually give him instructions on this one. Tell him what feels good and guide his tongue away from where it doesn’t. No need to tire him out na kumbe he’s doing zero work. Bonus tip: Lads, it helps to think of the clitoris as a tiny dick, because it technically is one. It doesn’t begin and end with just the little bit poking out of its covering. That’s just its head. Feel for the rest of it within the flesh just above the hood. It’ll be really hard when she’s turned on. Just like your penis, the underside of the clit is really really sensitive and rubbing under it through her fleshy folds can really get her blood pumping. Most women prefer this to direct stimulation of the head of the clitoris because the pleasure there borders on pain. Just put your finger at the junction between her lips and the clit and gently press inwards, rubbing around until she tells you it feels good. Then keep rubbing that area with your tongue or your finger for her maximum pleasure. 3. The Elevator I call this the elevator because it’s the perfect no-bed-required, quickie approach to giving head. Perfect especially for your office building elevator. Ladies, do not forget to cover your teeth with your lips. I cannot be held responsible for accidental bobbiting (the dictionary term for ‘biting his dick off’. Yes, there’s a word for it.) Bonus tip: The trick to great head is lots of tongue and lots of saliva (ask how much, some don’t like it too drippy). Put out your tongue, over your lip-covered teeth, like a kid in nursery school 😛 like that, yes. Try it now. You’ll look ridiculous but it’s worth it. Your tongue in this position will create friction on the underside of his penis as you bob your head up and down. Also make sure your mouth is tight enough so that the dick head is gliding on the roof of your mouth as you suck him. You’ll know you’re doing it right if there’s a suctioning kind of screechy  sound coming out of your mouth and his eyes have rolled so hard he’s staring at his retina. Warning: Only do this if you want him to cum in your mouth and intend to swallow. The cum will go straight down whether you like it or not. 4. The Throne Any out-of-bed sex experience is always a bonus to me and this is a great one. Sex in a chair just has a need-you-now hotness that’s only paralleled by sex in a club loo. Sit in a chair with your legs spread wide with your guy kneeling in between them. He can take control away from you by lifting your legs as shown in the picture above but feel free to make suggestions because ultimately you know your body way better. 5. Man On Top This is a comfortable position for you and a super-erotic one for him. Lie back on the bed with a pillow behind your head, then have him straddle your shoulders. He can support himself by holding the bed’s headboard or a wall. You can’t move much in this position so he’ll basically be fucking your face hole. If at some point he’s too enthusiastic, it gets to be too much and you find yourself gagging from too much ‘dick in throat’ then you can grab his hips to put yourself in control, slow down his movements and decide how far back he can thrust. 6. Magic As the name suggests you will think you’re in bed with a witchdoctor on this one. Lay back with a pillow under your hips so your pelvis is tilted up. Bend your knees, and place your feet on his shoulder blades. Here’s where the magic comes in: While your guy is doing his thing, have him use his hands to push gently upward on the area on your groin just above your lips, away from the pubic bone. This helps bring the clitoris out from beneath the hood and he can lick and suck to his hearts content. You will come out of this calling NASA and wondering where you dropped your flight suit because you’ll have seen all the stars from this universe and the next one. You will solve the question of life during the orgasm he will generate. Don’t be shocked if you get on one knee and propose afterwards. Fellas, this is the position she needs to be in to guarantee you that sandwich when you’re done. 7. Cowgirl 69 Cowgirl 69 as opposed to boy-on-top 69, which is just too awkward in my opinion. Consider this the absolute win-win when it comes to oral.He gets some, so do you, and it’s a total time saver for those in a hurry and for whom foreplay is a must. Have your guy lie on the bed with you on top, facing the opposite direction. While you’re on top in 69, you can control the intensity of oral stimulation on your clitoris by lifting or pressing your pelvis. When you’re ready for a change, roll over to side-by-side 69. 8. Sit On My Face Get ready for total control. While your guy is lying down, straddle him by placing your knees at his ears. Hold onto a wall or headboard for support. For an added bonus, have him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips, pressing your clitoris against it in whichever way feels best. This is a favorite with many and which guy doesn’t want a vagina on his face once in a while? What’s that guys? Oh, all the time? Well there you go girlie. And apparently a big booty or thunder thighs don’t hurt your chances of getting into this position. He will pinch you if you start to suffocate him.   So there you have it, 8 reasons why you should never complain that foreplay is a dull affair. Have fun trying them out and let me know in the comments section below if/when you’ve tried any and how that went.